Being born, children come to our world absolutely pure and open to everything new. And it depends on us, how they grow up: generous or stingy, envious or self-sufficient, tender or rude.
Scientists have not come to a unanimous opinion, what more influences the formation of a person's personality: biological factors (makings) or social (social attitudes). Of course, each newborn already has its own characteristics of temperament, abilities and inclinations, transmitted by their ancestors.
But with the passage of life, under the influence of society, additional character traits are added to them. It is the totality of heredity and upbringing that make individualities so unique and bright.
Children make the biggest leap in development from 0 to 3 years. If in the age period from birth to one year, parents need to take care of the full physical development of the baby, then from 1 to 2 years it is important to pay attention to the formation of speech and the formation of a harmonious picture of the world.
Methods and objectives of raising a child from 1 year to 2 years
To his first birthday, the kid tries to walk, can say a few words. Successes are simply phenomenal, but the most interesting is waiting ahead. Suddenly, your baby began to be capricious, aggressively demanding something that is not yet under force.
Do not be afraid and despair. This is a crisis of one year, in the literature he has many names: "I myself", "a period of disobedience." The bottom line is one thing: your baby is "intoxicated" with its tremendous achievements, it seems to him that he can do more.
Therefore, he concentrates on the computer keyboard, smears his mother’s lipstick on the wall, reaches for the boiling pot and flatly refuses to dress. Difficult stage for parents.
But important for the transition to the next stage of mental maturation. The main task is to translate the unbridled destructive energy into creative and peaceful.
Dangerous aspirations find an adequate replacement. In this difficult task you can be helped by a sense of humor, creativity and the ability to play.
Physical and psychological education of the child secrets
The main activity of the tots in the year, in 2 and 3 - is a game. With the help of unpretentious tips, rhymes accumulated by many generations, you will greatly facilitate your life. Now the child can not independently organize interesting entertainment.
He can examine objects for a long time, carry out simple manipulations. Show him all the possibilities of toys. As a pupa can walk, the machine carries goods, the frog jump. Treat the sick bear together; cook dinner for the bunny.
Do not forget to closely follow the fun. This will be your lesson. The children's game reflects the concepts of the world, of the family. Observation will allow you to correct or eliminate negative attitudes or perceptions in time.
Proper parenting - how to raise children
In each culture, their views on the methods and styles of education. But there is one common point. This is Love. Acceptance of your child for what it is. Give them the much needed attention, care and affection. From one to two years, the baby is still quite small, communication with parents, especially with mom, is strong and unbreakable.
Even fascinated by some work, your blood is always trying to keep a mom or a dad in sight. Answer them the same. Giving support, empathy you give your toddler confidence and courage.
Love and fulfill all the whims - things are different. Do not confuse. If you have a boy from kisses, hugs and other expressions of his feelings, he will not be less courageous in the future. And with their shortage, it is likely to be notorious, irritable and indecisive.
As evidenced by scientific observations of children who were brought up in orphanages.
How to raise a child in the year of recommendation
Having lived with you for a year, the baby learns a lot. Now this is not the baby who slept for a long time, ate, and then fell asleep again. Now he needs more freedom, but he is not going to part with you either.
It is not for nothing that this stage is called “skirt dress”; babies always strive to be near, to repeat everything. It's amazing how much he does. I got a comb in my hands - trying to comb, knocking on her head. Grabbed Dad's phone - brings to his ear. He took the remote and sends it to the TV.
They literally copy everything, consider the behavior of adults as a reference. There is an old good truth - raising a child begins with himself. Watch for yourself. How do you behave when something goes wrong? And when come home tired from work? Be honest with yourself, this is your child.
If something frustrates you in his behavior, remember that it was you who rewarded him. It should be noted that here we speak of children without medically induced deviations in behavior.
Raising a child in 2 years
The two-year-old has the most. The repertoire has a stock of words with which he can communicate with you.
Movement more focused and confident. It's time to teach yourself to perform the necessary hygienic procedures, clean up after a toy, eat gently.
Put on clothes. At this time, children often begin to attend kindergarten. Try to instill all these skills in advance, then he will feel calmer in the children's team.
Features of education
Features of the development and upbringing of children 1 year of life on the basis of gender practically do not differ But two-year differences should be. To raise a two-year-old boy is important to be strong, courageous, but not due to the alienation of feelings.
You should show your loving and caring attitude: talk, kiss, stroke. By the age of two, boys are very active, often bruises and bumps, but this is not a reason to limit physical fitness.
The upbringing of a girl of two years is focused on the development of creative abilities. They are more important aesthetic side.
Make her complements, only sincerely, without falsehood.
Mistakes in education
- Inconsistency of actions of others. One prohibits, the other encourages it. A child and so difficult to learn a bunch of rules and norms of behavior. Do not create additional obstacles yourself.
- Charge and Threat. Of course, we need the limits of what is permitted, but if they are violated, we should not intimidate the child too much. You want to grow a self-confident, enterprising citizen.
- Mood Swings. Our mood should not affect communication with the child. Control yourself. Do not tear your anger and irritation on them. Your requirements should always be the same.
- Unjustified bans. There are things that can not be done to kids, there are even dangerous ones. But your child must clearly know why not. Ignorance of the consequences pushes us to experiment.
- Hyper-Pharmacy. Give your baby freedom. At any age there are things that they can do themselves. Give yourself free time, stimulate their initiative.
- Lack of time. Children are very important not only our presence, but also communication, interaction. The fact that you, coming home from work, watch TV together, means nothing.
Talk, tell about yourself, ask how the day went by, what he was playing, what he learned new.
