Every person at least once in his life on personal experience felt such a painful phenomenon as a serious quarrel with close people. But sometimes this litter can turn into something more terrible and destructive - into enmity.
But is it possible to reconcile people with the help of prayer? Which Saints should be addressed in this case? How to properly prepare for the reading of such prayer texts? What if the husband cannot get along with his wife, or his relatives refuse to go with each other on a reasonable compromise? What other Orthodox ways exist to return peace between family and friends?
Detailed answers to each of the above questions are available in our article.
What does prayer for reconciliation help?
Enmity and strife are destructive in their own right. But there is nothing worse when once close people begin to be hostile. Due to such feuds, families are destroyed, long-term friendly and friendly relations. But the saddest thing is that the former beloved and friends are often the most terrible enemies. Therefore, it is necessary to reconcile the warring parties as quickly as possible, while the hatred has not yet filled their souls. In this case, the Orthodox prayer for reconciliation of the warring can help.
The prayer for reconciliation of the warring is a powerful verbal formula that helps resolve even the most terrible conflict on the energy level.
Prayer text contributes to:
- Mitigate the anger of both sides of the conflict. Having calmed down, relatives can take a more critical look at the current situation and try to resolve it;
- Awakening of love and compassion in the hearts of warring. These warm feelings lead to reconciliation, how strong mutual insults would not be;
- Destruction and removal of the black slander, if the cause of hostile feuds was damage or curse;
- Formation of a protective field from black magic and other negative effects on the human aura, which makes it impossible to impose such a dark slander in the future.
Thus, for a believer, the application of prayer for reconciliation of the warring is the most correct decision.
How to read a prayer for reconciliation conflicting?
Any prayer should be able to read correctly. For this reason We recommend that you read the prayer rules below:
- The reading of the prayer service must be done with exceptionally good intentions. One cannot desire the reconciliation of certain people at the expense of the conflict of others. You cannot ask for sickness or punishment for the instigator of hostility. On the contrary, in prayer for reconciliation of the warring, one must ask for good for all;
- You need to pray with sincere faith. Prayer texts will not help the atheist or doubting agnostic, but will further strengthen his lack of faith. Why so? Because, in the absence of an energy striving for God, the astral connection between the one praying and the Higher Forces is not formed;
- Anger - the main emotion of hostility - refers to the mortal sins. When begging for the sins of others, you must repent of your own. To do this, for 7 days before the first reading of the prayer for reconciliation of the warring, you need to fast, attend the temple, put candles for the health of the conflicting and repent of your own sins before the Lord's Face;
- Do not try to point to God. When praying, it is important to show respect to the Creator and his Minions, and not to demand, but to ask for Higher Grace. Otherwise, the Most High may be angry;
- You can offer a prayer in the church or at home. In the second case, it is recommended to pre-clean, as the Light Forces of disorder do not tolerate;
- Only baptized Christian believers can read powerful Orthodox prayers for reconciliation.
During the ascension of the prayer service, it is recommended to use church utensils. It is necessary to place in front of you the icon of the Saint, to which prayer is read, to light a thin church candle in front of the Image, to burn a piece of incense. The corners of the room in which the prayer to end the conflict and reconciliation of the rivals will be read are recommended to be sprinkled with holy water.
What prayers to read?
In the case of reconciliation of the warring, you should read the prayers to the Almighty Lord God, or to the next Holy Lord Pleas:
- The Blessed Virgin;
- Rev. Peter and Fevronia of Murom;
- Great martyrs and martyrs Boris and Gleb;
- To the Confessors and Martyrs of Guria, Himself and Aviv;
- Martyr Paraskeva Friday.
Let us consider in more detail these strong prayers for reconciliation of the warring.
At hostility of the husband with the wife
There is a special energetic connection between the husband and wife married in the church. Therefore, in the event of hostility of spouses increases the likelihood of accidental imposition of the tribal curse. Unfortunately, it is extremely simple to do this - in anger it is enough to insult with a dirty word, to wish death or send to the devil. To avoid this, it is necessary to reconcile the hostile with the help of prayer text.
Most of all, an appeal to the Blessed Peter and Fevronia is a prayer for reconciliation with her husband. The union of these Saints since ancient times is considered a symbol of traditional values.
The text of the prayer to Peter and Fevronia for reconciliation of the warring husband and wife:
"Oh, great wonderworkers and saints of God, holy Prince Peter and Princess Fevronia! I resort to you, I pray with strong hope in you. Exalt my sinful prayer to the Lord God. Ask God for goodness: faith to right, hope to good, love unfeigned Help me with my beloved, God's slave (name), be together. Amen. "
When hostile loved ones
In the case of enmity between lovers, not married in a church marriage, the following prayers are recited:
- Virgin on the icon "Soften evil hearts":
"Oh the long-suffering Mother of God, the Highest of all the daughters of the earth, in her purity and in the multitude of sufferings, with thee upon the lands which we have borne, accept our sorely painful sighs and save us under the shelter of Your mercy. Otherwise, the shelter and warmth of offering you are not like you, but boldness to the one born out of you, help and save us with your prayers, and with uncomfortable with all the saints let us sing in the Trinity to the one God now and ever and ever and ever. Amen "
- Martyr Paraskeva:
"The dedication of the sacred and martyr of Christ Paraskevo, the beauty of the maiden, the martyrs praised, the repo, the image of the peasant, the wondrous mirrors, the wise, the Christian faithful to the keeper, the idolatry of the accuser, the Gospel of the Divine champion, the commandments of the Lord, the adolescent, the beloved of your Christ, God of joy, gleaming, adorned with the crown of virginity and martyrdom! We pray thee, holy martyr, wake us so sorrowful for Christ God. With His most indulgent eyes joyfully, pray for the All-Merciful, open the eyes to the blind, let us save our darkness, bodily coupled and spiritual, from the disease, dark darkness from your sins, enlighten our Father's Light from our sins, enlighten us with our spiritual and physical eyes; enlighten us , darkened by sins, by the light of God's grace, for your sake of holy prayers, sweet vision will be given to you. O great deed of God! O brave virgin! O mighty martyr Saint Paraskevo! With your holy prayers be a sinful assistant to us, intercede and pray for accursed and seriously negligent sinners, quick to help us, for selo are weak. Pray to the Lord, pure maiden, pray to the Gracious, holy martyr, pray to your Bridegroom, the Immaculate Christ's Bride, help you with your prayers, the darkness of sinful sin, in the light of true faith and deeds of the Divine, look into the light of everlasting and everlasting mercy, now you are bright and blissful in glory and joy to the infinite, glorifying and singing with all the Heavenly Forces the Tris-Holy One Divine, Father and Son and Holy Spirit, now and forever and forever. Amen."
Both prayers for reconciliation with a loved one are read to the appropriate image of the Holy Benefit.
To the Lord
The prayer for the cessation of hostility addressed to the Lord God is universal. It is recommended to read it in the event of any conflict, even between people completely alien to each other.
The text of the prayer to the Lord:
"Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God. Come down to us who ask, let all the sinful actions go. Have mercy and conquer enmity between your servants (call alternately the names of those you wish to reconcile). Cleanse their souls from evil and the forces of the devil, protect them from evil people and the eyes of the envious. As a quarrel over the evil deed, return it to the wicked adversaries. Thy will be done, now and ever, and forever and ever. Amen. "
Saints Boris and Gleb
A strong prayer for reconciliation of the hostile Martyrs Boris and Gleb is read in cases where close friends or blood brothers or sisters are in conflict.
Prayer text of the appeal to these saints:
"Oh, the sacred twin, brotherhood, beautiful, dobli passion-bearers Boris and Glebe, who served Christ from his youth by faith, served him with purity and love, and with his blood, adorned with Christ, now reigning with Christ! Do not forget us who live on the earth, but as a tempered intercessor, by your strong intercession before Christ God save the young in the holy faith and purity undamaged from every kind of unbelief and impurity, protect all of us from all sorrow, bitterness and death in vain, tame any enmity and anger, with the devil's action, revolve from death We pray you, Christ-lovers of the Passion-bearers, ask from the great Vladyka for all of us the abandonment of our sins, unity of mind and health, deliverance from the onslaught of alien tribes, internecine swearing, ulcers and eyes. forever and ever. Amen. "
Another prayer for reconciliation of warring friends is The appeal to the Great Martyrs Guria, Himself and Aviv:
"On the feast of the martyrs and confessors of Christ, Gurie, Samon and Aviv! Teplii intercession and prayers of God before us, in the tenderness of our hearts, gazing at your most pure image, humbly pray you: hear us, sinful and unworthy servants of our own, who are in trouble, sorrow and misfortune, and the ghost of our grave and innumerable sins, show us your great mercy, raise us from the depths of sin, enlighten our mind, soften the evil and cursed heart, stop the envy, enmity and discord that live in us. Renounce us with peace, love and by the fear of God, please God of mercy, may he cover our many sins with his inexpressible mercy, may he keep his church holy from unbelief, heresies, and schisms, may peace and prosperity be given to our country, love and harmony to the spouses, obedience, offensive patience, offensive fear of God; complacency to grieving, rejoicing at restraint, May all of us cover us with his almighty right hand, and save us from witness, ruin, coward, flood, fire, sword, invasions of foreigners and civil wars, and in vain death. May we be protected by the militia of His holy angels, in the meantime, deliver us from our lives from the wiles of cunning and secret air ordeals, and those not condemned to the throne of the Lord of Glory, having glorified the holy and magnificent Name of the Father and all the saints. Son and Holy Spirit, now and ever and ever and ever. Amen"
How to return peace between relatives?
Enmity among relatives is not uncommon. It is detrimental effect not only on the warring, but also on other relatives. But how to return peace between relatives? As mentioned above, the best way for a sincere Christian believer is to periodically read a strong prayer of reconciliation. If the faith of the worshiper is strong, peace and prosperity will soon reign in the house.
In addition, you can try knowledgeable ways to reconcile dear to people
- Talk with them, try to explain to each of them the position of your opponent. However, you need to act cautiously - if the conflicting are in strong anger, then they can quarrel with those who are trying to help them;
- To go to church with them or myself, to put candles for the health of the conflicting;
- To distract relatives from a quarrel, to spend cultural leisure with them - first with each one separately, and then carefully propose a general meeting.
In any case, the main thing is not to overdo it. It also happens that passions boil over, and good relations between hostile people will quickly recover. And if you help them with a sincere prayer - it will happen even faster.
