Morning fees for school or other classes are often a nightmare for mom: besides preparing breakfast and taking care of your own appearance, you also need to wake up and collect a little person who desperately wants to stay at home. There are psychological techniques that will help make the week mornings more peaceful and effective.
First, do not shout at the child and scold him for sluggishness. It really is not easy for him to wake up and start acting in the usual day mode, especially if he is an owl by nature. You can give him a little freedom, the main thing - to remove from under a warm blanket. It does not matter if the child misses breakfast because of this. In any case, he will be able to eat at school, and the mood spoiled by high-speed recovery will not be easy.
Secondly, it is necessary to reduce the time of gathering as much as possible, having prepared in the evening. The whole school outfit of a child, a briefcase and accessories should be ready on the eve not to occupy the morning with a search for clean socks. The process of dressing, especially in winter, needs to be stretched into several stages. For example, getting out of bed, a child needs to wear pantyhose or a bottom t-shirt, after washing or breakfast - everything else. Because of this, he will not have a way to retreat: in school uniform, he will not be capricious and climb back into bed.
How to beat the bad mood of a child in the morning? Music will help. Favorite songs and wake the baby, and lift his spirit. Of course, you should choose cheerful and funny melodies, under which you can do exercises at the same time. Many parents make the mistake of letting children watch cartoons on TV in front of the school. This can distract from fees and provoke moods, if the child does not have time to watch the transfer.
Very busy mothers have learned to turn the morning of the child into a game with which he can cope on his own, without taking time from his parents. You can draw all the stages of his fees on beautiful leaves of paper and hang in the right places of the apartment, providing arrows. A child will be doubly happy if his mother depicts him in the costume of a beloved hero. So brushing your teeth or putting on a school uniform will turn into a training superhero and will take place without incident. Thanks to this trick, the child may eventually get used to even prepare his breakfast, having learned detailed visual instructions. Naturally, the mother at the same time should be near and control the process, but in parallel she can do other things or younger children.
