The psyche of the child in this early period is quite vulnerable. After all, he knows how to perceive the emotions of others, be offended, shame, disappointed, this is exactly what he is aware of at this age.
Many people think that if a baby has grown up and finds lessons for itself, then you should not pay special attention to it for its upbringing. Parents spend a lot of time on their business, forgetting about him, about the fact that he always wants to be paid attention to, wants to know that they love him.
Very important at this age, adhere to the methods of psychology to conduct joint games, read books, perform classes, housework, because behavior is based on the imitation of an adult, it is the joint pastime that is most important.
Baby should feel its responsibility in the case assigned to him, it is also necessary to praise him if he succeeded in doing something. If he tried, but could not do it, you still need to praise and say "next time, be sure to succeed."
The tasks of raising and educating a child
The main tasks of education and training of boys and girls at the age of 4-5 and 6 years, depend on the parents and the harmony in the family, first of all it is:
- teach them to communicate in society;
- give as much information and knowledge as possible;
- give thanks for the help and presents;
- respect the elders and not interrupt them during the conversation.
Psychology shows that at this age, love is revealed to speak to others, the desire to recite poems, dance, sing, so the task of parents is to help and develop the talents of their children.
Behavior and education
Proper education and behavior in the period of 4-5 years is well developed cognitive activity. It is necessary to perform tasks that are recommended by psychology to try to adhere to certain methods, to find time to communicate with the child as often as possible, to give him useful information, to teach everything new.
Now it is the period when everything is interesting for them, many questions arise, therefore dad for boy, girl can be real "teacher of life". Men know a lot of things and can give an answer to a child’s question.
Begin to form moral qualities: sensitiveness, understanding, kindness, a sense of friendship. It is necessary to support and teach the boy and the girl to treat others positively.
RAuditors should know the psychology of behavior of boys and girls at this age and using their own example to teach them to master the rules of culture of behavior with their peers and elders, to perform assigned tasks, to teach how to behave in public places, how to share toys, where to give up, and where to stand on one’s own
Five year old baby characterized by mood swings, unpredictable behavior, children become physically and psychologically resilient, can perform the tasks set by the parent.
Now it is easy to agree with them, parents should become best friends with them. Good parenting is laid on love, which should be felt in all situations, even when you have done bad things, you do not need parents to be afraid.
Is always be on your child's side, trust him, help solve problems, be a support for him in life. Know how to always find an alternative, to show understanding without disturbing the individuality of a little person.
How to raise a child in 4 years tips
Education should be right, because this is an important age period for them. Personality traits are fixed and character is formed. A child copies in his life the behavior of his own parents, because adults are his role model.
In this period the main thing is to pay a lot of attention develop cognitive processes. Psychology suggests giving entertaining tasks to your child, telling a lot, it is interesting and well remembered.
Develop some rules in the family and clearly monitor their implementation, for example, the child should be able to clean up after himself, put toys, throw garbage in a bucket etc. But it is desirable not to forget to praise, to reward with a kiss for the work done.
Features of education
Features of raising a child 4 and 5 years lie in the fact that they must adhere to established rules in the family, which should be strictly followed.
If the mother forbade, then the father must also be together with the mother. There should be no exception today, but not tomorrow.
When raising parents must be observant and attentive in order to respond in time to the causes of disobedience.
Relationships of parents with children are built continuously, daily. A feature of upbringing is considered to be a correctly defined type of temperament, therefore, considering it, we can confidently say that communication and upbringing will take place, much easier, correctly.
This rule will help to form a harmonious personality. One should always try to build trusting relationships, develop their personality, not limit their imagination, be able to listen, laugh with children more often, teach them to communicate, be able to react correctly to tantrums, let them make mistakes and learn from them.
Moral education of the child
The child begins to follow the norms of morality of his own free will; he can correctly make the right moral choice in practice.
Psychology showsthat during this period he has the moral values of life and trust in people, sympathy is manifested, guilt is manifested, and it becomes trusting.
For all moral norms, the social way of behavior is fixed, for example: "You can not lie to adults", "you can not take someone else's", etc. They know how to divide what can be done and what cannot.
Moral development of children in 4-5 years signs:
they form the first moral judgments and assessments;
begin to understand the meaning of moral norms;
the effectiveness of moral ideas increases;
Conscious morality arises, that is, his behavior begins to adhere to moral standards.
Proper education of counseling psychologist
Proper parenting advice to parents from psychology
1. No need to ask questions that provoke the bad;
2. Say positive requests;
3. No need to explain to the child what he already knows;
4. No need to read hourly notation;
5. No need to manipulate the child
6. to be able to find a compromise, to learn to overcome difficulties in life;
Difficulties in education in 4 5 and 6 years
Parenting difficulties arise when parents do not know the features of children's behavior and constantly demand certain actions from the child, achievements, do not take into account his personal opinion, do not allow making decisions on their own, do not listen, constantly criticize, abuse and humiliate.
In this case, the girl or the boy completely closes, ceases to trust his parents, does everything in spite and shows his character, does not study well at school, and further problems in adulthood.
To avoid difficulties in upbringing, you need to begin to apply the methods of psychology, first of all, you should learn to ask politely, and not to order and demand to react correctly to tantrums, to develop personality.
